The tightness of your Fleshlight is an important factor in the quality of your experience. Some men might not even realize that their Fleshlight feels too tight, but if you are experiencing pain during or after use, it’s time to upgrade your toy.
There are a few simple tricks that you can do to make it feel better and more pleasurable again…
So, your fleshlight is a little tighter than usual?
If your fleshlight feels tighter than usual it could be due to the build-up of lube and other fluids inside. These items can dry out in your fleshlight making it feel tighter.
You can try a few things: First, you may want to apply some lube or moisturizer on your dick before inserting it into your fleshlight.
If that doesn’t work, you may want to apply some lube or moisturizer on your fleshlight.
You can also try putting it in warm water for a few minutes. If your fleshlight is new and still has its original coating of powder, you may want to wipe it off.
The powder can make your device feel slightly tighter as well. You might even consider using a condom with your fleshlight if you experience any discomfort or pain when using it without one.
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Try switching positions
If you’re in a position that’s not working for you, try switching things up! A little experimentation can go a long way. If you don’t like it at first, remember that practice makes perfect. Don’t be afraid to play around and see if something new clicks.
A lot of people also don’t realize that certain positions can be easier or harder for different people. For instance, if you’re on top in a cowgirl position and you have a long torso and short legs like me, it might be really hard to reach his shaft with your mouth because of your body position relative to his body.
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Warm up with a smaller version
The best thing you can do for yourself is to invest in a Fleshlight that’s smaller than your actual penis. This will make it easier to slide inside and start getting used to your new toy.
Go with something slightly thinner and shorter than you this will allow you to play around and experiment with positions before taking on that much responsibility.
If you go with a toy that’s similar to your size, or even smaller than you are at maximum erection (we recommend no more than 1/2 inch shorter), then it will be too tight right off the bat. You need to warm up and stretch out before getting into a strenuous workout.
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Break out some toys
If you have a Fleshlight but find that it’s still a little too tight for comfort, don’t worry.
Fortunately, there are solutions out there for men who enjoy Fleshlights and want them to be slightly looser. The most popular solution is to purchase a small bottle of water-based lube like
Astroglide or KY Jelly, then apply a few drops inside your toy before using it.
You may also want to purchase an anal dilator which can help loosen up your anus as well as make things more comfortable during anal sex with your partner. Don’t forget to use plenty of lube on both yourself and your toy when using one of these dilators.
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Try something different
The Fleshlight is a great masturbation toy. With so many different styles, textures, and orifices available, it’s no wonder it has a reputation as one of the best on market.
However, if you have tried all of your sleeves and still aren’t getting enough pleasure out of them then perhaps it might be time for something new. Using an array of products along with your Fleshlight may help you reach climax more quickly and enjoy an enhanced experience.
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Switch it up every few weeks
The main reason people say a Fleshlight feels too tight is that they don’t change it up enough. You need to switch it out every few weeks or so, otherwise, you’ll end up developing calluses and skin issues. Also, keep in mind that lubrication is a good thing use some water-based lube before using your toy.
It’s also important that you keep your toy well-maintained. Wash it out with warm water and soap when you’re finished using it.
Let it dry completely before putting it away so that mildew doesn’t grow inside of it.
Also, make sure you buy an extra Fleshjack Boys Mouth or other inserts if you want more variety than just a plain pocket pussy.
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Engage in manual masturbation
It may seem a bit counterintuitive at first, but if you’re experiencing an intense level of pleasure from your Fleshlight that you simply can’t bear any longer, then you should consider masturbating manually.
This will give your penis time to rest and recover without experiencing discomfort. After ten minutes or so of manual stimulation, apply lube again and get back into your Fleshlight toy for more pleasurable fun.
Manual masturbation provides an opportunity for you to pull out of your Fleshlight toy and allow your penis time to recover.
Even if you feel as though you’re not going to last much longer, it’s worth using manual stimulation as a break to ensure that you aren’t doing damage or harming yourself in any way during sexual activity.
Manual stimulation is also a great way of upping your Fleshlight experience by changing up how you orgasm.
Manual masturbation can give you more power over your level of pleasure.
If your Fleshlight feels too intense but you don’t want to turn it off or disengage just yet because you know you’re almost there with orgasm, then manual stimulation is a great way of giving yourself a break.
It also allows you to extend sexual activity in a fun and pleasurable way by shifting between masturbating manually and with your toy when you feel that orgasms are close at hand.
Manual masturbation can be a quick and easy way of increasing your stamina in bed. If you’re afraid that you might not be able to last long enough for your partner (or partners), then opt for manual stimulation as a way of developing greater control over how long you’re going at it.
A good strategy is to set a timer for ten minutes or so and challenge yourself to see how long you can make it before having an orgasm.